All right, dudes, listen up. This is a completely serious and well-intentioned piece of advice from a single woman who has been at this dating thing for a while.
Stop acting like you deserve a relationship with a woman just because you are a halfway decent human being. Stop acting like because some douchebags manage to acquire girlfriends or wives that therefore all women want douchebags. Stop to consider that maybe acting like an entitled asshat who thinks women are idiots for not seeing what you have to offer with your poetry and your two jobs has something to do with your lack of dates.
And stop acting like we owe you something just because you’re a good guy. WE DON’T.